i get so sad sometimes, especially when i read stories like these. Women who feel guilty for how they look. Admitedly, we know we are making mistakes. I'll agree that i am often guilty of eating the wrong things in the wrong proportions, and i hate myself for it. but i get so sad that we feel like failures. and i think its everyone- women of all shapes and sizes. Women are taught that no matter what, whatever they do just isn't enough. thats what makes me sad. Damned straight i'm going to **** it up every now and then- but chances are, i'm bound to make more and more mistakes when i don't feel like i'm worthy of whats good. its a self fulfilling prophecy. we don't let ourselfs have what we don't think we deserve. thats what makes me sad. believe me, i know the weight issues are hard. I'm over weight, and always have been. but. for me, getting mad at my self doesn't make me improve. |