 Embarrassed much??
Oh honey.Gentle hugs if that's okay. I'm a rape survivor of 4 years. The moment I told my mother was hard and I can only imagine who you feel now if you were not planning on telling her. I can also understand not wanting to be around people, I remember the first time I was standing there having a conversation with someone when they're young daughter walked up and announced, "you have a mustache..and you're getting a beard." I wanted to die. Her mother tried to politely apologize but the damage had already been done. I felt like a freak, and that really affected my ability to be around other people.
I can't offer advice only to say, it will be okay. It will take time for your mother to process this and she may follow the same steps as mourning a loss but after some time, it will be okay. Just be open to talk to her about it when she asks.
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Diagnosed with PCOS March 2009
Me (24), my DBF, Tommy(24) plus 1 fluffy cat (Maggie) and 1/2 puppy dog (Maddie) my 6 lb yorkie.
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Optimistically planning a wedding (January 16, 2009) and family (Hoping for 3 beautiful children.)
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Darvoset - 650mg--as needed;Balziva (BC); Glucophage 1350mg-daily.
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