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She said that she got to keep her baby and I lost mine because God is unhappy with the way I live my life.
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Who are these people that say these things?? I keep hearing about it on this board, yet I can't imagine I actually know somebody that disgusting. It makes me queasy to think there are people like that.
God is not malevolent - He doesn't punish us like that. If her (il)logic were true, then how do you explain all the crack hoes out there who pop out kid after kid and continually neglect them, because they can't stop looking for that next hit?
I don't know that the hurt will ever completely go away. I have not miscarried, but I have friends who have, and even after having living children now, they still talk about the child they lost with great sadness. I hope and pray that the sting eases over time. I'm so sorry for your loss.