Hakuna, i am truely sorry for you loss. There are no perfect words to say to make the pain go away or i would say them everyday for myself. It gets easier to handle but never goes away. I want to remember the joy of carrying my babies no matter if it was only a little while. BUt i agree it takes the joy away from the following pregnancies because you are constantly worried it will happen again.
Just give yourself time to heal. Cry when u need to, avoid pregnant friends, if they dont understand then just remember its not all about them. Your heart has a right to mourn the loss of your child. Have you named your baby? i found that helped and i also tried to save something from each of my m/c's but i have not EVER take them out to look at yet. But someday i will.
People say stupid things and u make sure that you dont just walk away when they do. Because by you responding to their comments(not in hatred) you are saving them from saying the same crap to someone else in the future.
Sending you lots of hugs and feel free to RANT anytime you want....
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Angel 1 -4/06-5wks
Angel 2 1/08( stephanie grace) 6wks
Angel 3 2/09 (steven blestman) 8wks
Current meds: ba, prenatal, 2mg folic acid & B complex- Dx'd with PCOS 1/08
dx'd with mthfr homo. 4/09
Entering a clinical study for clomid/Femera-
Tammy-39-Steve 48-ttc 6 years
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