That's a shame, I don't think your being selfish. When someone says a date to start trying for a baby and then says no... id be devastated.
I can understand the situation with not having a job, is he looking and do you think he will get one soon?
Does he really want a family coz you said he never brings the conversation up?
Why not give it a few months or till nearer xmas time you can get your body even more ready by then even though time is ticking (im 25 and have only been going out with my bf for 6 months but i panic sometimes at the fact that I want to be married before I have a baby but i don't want to get married for like another 4 years yet etc) but im sure he'll have a job by then... hopefully what with this stupid credit crunch.
Im not so good with giving out advice, hope it helps. |