I struggle a lot with motivation on a daily basis. Some days I wonder if I'm doing it for myself or for everyone else... don't always feel deserving of that wonderful change. Chances are there are some mental health issues, maybe not significant ones but ones not allowing her to think that she deserves to feel better. Have you ever thought of just having a heart to heart with her? That is something some of my loved ones have to do with me from time to time. I sometimes go down the destructive path (eating bad, consume caffeine, etc) and then what it takes is a "new look" persay. I try to go treat myself to having my extra facial hair by waxing instead of shaving. Or a new fun hair cut... something flirty. Is the weather nice by you guys? Maybe take her out for a nice healthy picnic in a beautiful park. That will get you out and about walking and such 
Best of luck and know that ppl are here if you need to vent!!!
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Renee (Nay) 27 & Jeff (DH) 28
My Newfie (Lisa)
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my "kids" 1 retriever Lucky; and 1 Goldendoodle Fozzie
Dx: PCOS March 13, 2000
Other Dx: PTSD, Depression/Anxiety, Fibro, Sleep Apnea, High BP
Rx:Metformin 1500mgER, Prenatal Vits, Provera 10day
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