So sorry to hear about your loss. It is a very frightining road that I think many of us are still trying to navigate. I know that I would like to have another child, and right now I am finding comfort from my DH, family, pastor, and just praying. I'm hoping that God will bless me with another child and help each day of grieving to become less and less.
I'm slated to begin a new cycle with injections as soon as AF shows her head. I'm a bit ambivalent with the situation, but I ultimately believe that I will go through it again. I agree that God has a purpose, somethimes that I don't understand. I would have loved to have that baby in my arms on October 28, 2009, but God knew otherwise for me. Just stay around positive people in your life, grieve how and when you need to, but don't move forward hoping to "replace" your baby. I acknowledge that my baby was a baby - NOT to be replaced, but remembered always. If anything, my m/c has brought my relationship with DH closer, and my sensitivities to others and their time of grieving ot a better place. I had so many insensitive people act as if them/c didn't even occur. Good luck to you, and I know that you will be blessed.
We also have a TTC after a loss thread in the TTC section, so come and join us.
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"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God..." Philippians 4:6
Jenn, DH, & DD 5
Baby #2 ANGEL Baby/D&C 3/26/09
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TTC #3 - Cycle 1 - 5/23/09 - Menopur (busted on 6/5/09)
Cycle 2 - RE consult on 11/24/09! Praying to make our family grow to 4!
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GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS PRAYERS!!!
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