Tatatami - hub and I are in the same position: he just redeployed after 15 months, then we concieved really quickly, then lost the baby @ 8 weeks. We're almost to our mid-30s, so he's seriously considering ending his career at 12 years just to make sure we can keep TTC.
I feel guilty about it, but you got to do what you got to do.
We are in Germany--the German OB GYN was great but didn't beleive PCOS raised incidents of miscarriage. HA! She did identify that my uterus is also "bicornuate", which is rare and makes things even trickier. I tried to get on Metformin, but Army doc referred me out, then we found out I was pregnant. I'm looking for an RE here who knows what's up.
Good luck~~