Originally Posted by Lilly_Vixen

you shouldnt feel selfish at all. You have been open with him about PCOS from the beginning, so he KNOWS that it can take a long time to concieve and yet he is more than happy to put your needs on hold. I am only 20 years old (been ttc for over a year now) but my partner wants kids as much as I do so I struck lucky... I think you need to speak with him... make him understand HOW much this means to you.... that it might take a while to fall pregnant so whats the harm in trying now? and if u do fall pregnant.... then more of a kick up the arse to find work!! good luck hunny! xxxxx