When we lost our dd in jan 2006,the hospital gave me a book called when hello means goodbye & it helped me.It always seems to help when you see that there are others who have had to go thru what you have.It was still hard but between reading that,writing letters to my dd & having my family around me..i made it thru.I still miss her terribly & think of her numerous times throughout my day but i can talk about her now without crumbling into a big ball of tears. |