my boyfriend knows about my pcos...and i have hair everywhere....everywhere. but instead of turning the lights completely off, i use candles. just a few. that way i'm not completely exposed but its still visually stimulating for him. he can still see the siluhoutte of my body. and let him touch me everywhere and anywhere. i take mental notes of where he touches and how he reacts. it helps me to focus in where i need to "groom" better. and it also helps that he's a great wonderful man. i just don't want to strain my relationship so i'm basically forcing myself to be comfortable with who i am. |