Slow-Motion

OMG that was so crazy, I swear to you, I thought you were explaining my DH!!

His ex wife was "out to get him" and even had him fired from the highest paying job he had while with her... I don't feel that therapy will work with DH because he wont open up about ANY of his feelings, but I thought It would help THEM see how he is. But if DH doesn't like him from the start there is no hope for him to get comfortable enough to open up..

I notice that when DH and I are out in public he is "Mr. Cool Guy, laid back not saying much, just trying to not draw ANY attention to himself" but at home it the opposite. He is always scared that I'm going to hurt him, (if i get frustrated with something and throw my hands in the air like UGH, he will freak out..)

As for seeing a Psychiatrist, we have an appointment for June 1st. BUT DH has already talked to him and says how he never lets DH say anything and how he "just doesn't give a S***." He thinks no ones believes what is going on but he "can't explain it" or "doesn't remember" when they ask. My therapist said that most of the time it is the family member that makes that dx and the doctors just follow through with that.

I don't understand how someone could "fake" being all these things for the past year, and by talking with him dad the past 10 years.

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