Sandy: Thank you 
We have been married 11 years and living together in Finland (his home country) for 12. I think the previous losses put a strain on the relationship even though they were 5 years ago. He hasn't taken that well to this pregnancy even though it has progressed further than any of the previous ones. I did have a bunch of scares from 5w6d to 8 weeks. I had bleeding, passing clots, being told I was going to miscarry. But, we talked today and he seemed better. He even wanted to pick out names. We decided on one for a boy. He said that he believes that this pregnancy will make it and we'll be parents. So, maybe he is starting to change. We have had some culture clashes. He has his family and friends in Finland and i'm rather isolated there though i've been there for such a long time and speak Finnish. It just isn't the same as being in the US. He has lived in the US before (for 2 years in college) so, he is familiar with my culture, but he is still a Finn and they tend to be cold and unemotional. Interestingly enough, we haven't had clashes do to race, just culture (american vs finnish).
Anyway, now, i'm back in my homestate at least until the 16th of june. Then we'll decide what to do about our relationship. I really spilled my guts... Quote:
Originally Posted by SandV  Acajou - Congrats on your pg! I wish you all the best that it continues and your baby keeps baking.
Sorry to hear about troubles with DH. I know it is very hard for me sometimes since my DH grew up in a different culture than I did. |
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Me 36
3 miscarriages 2004
DS Noah born at 36w2d 5lbs 13 oz 19.5"
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4/2/09 +HPT
Met 3x750, Klexane 80ml 2xd,asp 81mg,cal.286g,iron 100
heartbeat seen 4/14,16,24,28&5/5,18,28,2,9/6 hb=176 28.5 hb=161.86, 6.2&9 hb=154.8
b6/29 baby 185g,7/28 343g IT'S A BOY!!!!
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7/6-hb=150 |