Random thought thrown in... I'm not promiscuous so don't get me wrong but I have had more than one sex partner. I just think back to the "ooopses" I've had and I definitely question if I DIDN'T have PCOS would those "ooopses" have resulted in a baby when I wasn't ready or with the right person? Very well could have.
I'm just so thankful that I have had a great life so far. I was able to complete my BS in 4 years right out of high school, then go on to my MS (2 classes to go). I have a wonderful job which I love going to every day and the most wonderful husband in the world who I just married this past January. He has an amazing job as well. We have bought our first home a couple years ago and we have a super cute little dog!
When I was younger I had everything planned out. I always wanted to have a family young. I wanted to finish college at age 22 (did that), but I wanted to marry by 23 and have my first baby by 24.
Now sitting here where I am, at 25, married just 4 months ago, I wouldn't have it any other way. We too have been TTC since Oct, so it's been about 7 months with no success, but I've known since I was in my mid teens somehow that TTC would be hard for me, so I feel like we've been trying much longer.
Again, I go back to my first statement - basically everything happens for a reason. Who knows what would have happened if I wouldn't have had PCOS or I would have become pregnant earlier? That could have been a mess! I would have loved having a baby, but perhaps God was just making me wait for better things (my DH especially) before blessing me with a child.
Our time will come. It's just so important to enjoy the here and now because what if you wake up tomorrow and things that you DO have, yet maybe aren't appreciating as much right now, are gone? I know it's hard to look at things this way when PCOS causes such a struggle (I DEFINITELY know that), but we have to do our best to live a happy life - it's the only one we have.