I'm very very sorry about all of your losses and heartaches! The women in this forum understand what you are feeling, believe me. Even though there are many of us with other children we got to keep, the pain is never gone, and the memories sting. Have you all been tested for repeat losses? Some moms have clotting problems or other details that can be helped. If you are able to look at adoption, I would encourage you to meet with families who have succeeded with it and try that idea while you are still thinking about bio kids at the same time (or if you do decide to "throw in the towel"). Do you have access to a local support group? Mine did help me cope and feel like less of a crazy person. I totally understand that your life is on hold while you're so focused on starting a family and it just isn't happening. ((((Hugs))))
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Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.
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Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Duncan 2/11/05, 9lb 3oz
Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Ruby 2/27/06, 9lbs |