Gosh, I love your post. I feel you 100%. Well I'm blk and I have hair EVERYWHERE. On my chin, chest, face cheeks,butt cheek, between the butt cheeks, etc. lol. TMI, I know. lol. But I'm just keepin it real. I hate when women try to tell you somethin bout your facial hair and they have no idea what it feels like. Its a serious self esteem killer. I know I should probably be tryin to uplift you right now, but its so hard for me to do so when I feel where you comin from. I feel as you do and I'm goin through the same thing.
Only thing I'm doin right now, which I have posted everywhere, I promise you I'm not a spokesperson for this product, lol, but I use Sally Hansen hair remover and I tell myself everyday now "those who mind, don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
I have to tell myself this to keep from closing myself off from the people I love because I have facial hair. I mean this stuff could keep you totally hostaged if you let it. But hey you don't let it do it to you. I know that you feel like you look like a monkey but I'm pretty sure that you don't. lol. I find that as women we are harder on ourselves than others are anyway... And maybe these people are staring at you cuz you are starin at them. lol |