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Tina Castle · 06-26-2009, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Heather in canada

i had my best friend of 8 years who i thought i had explained things to, but i guess she wasnt paying that much attention cuz later on she got upset with me cuz i was complaining about some symptoms one day and she had the nerve to ask why i didnt just get a hysterectomy so i could solve the issues and stop my whining. i didnt even know what to say to her i was so upset, cuz obviously she had never listened to me or did any research on it to back up her 'solution'. needless to say, we arent friends any longer. its amazing the conclusions people come up with when they dont have a clue what they are talking about, and how upset they get when they get called on it. good riddance!

More power to you sister!

Your so called friend sounds like she was very self-absorbed. I think we've all had people like that in our lives and then one day we just cut them out and move on with ourselves. Someone who can't listen to your issues without complaining isn't a true friend.

I had a friend who I was complaining about not having my period to. I was very worried and confused. She has 3 kids and an IUD in that she has to be taken out every 5 years. She get's her period every 6 months because of the IUD.

Well I start telling her how I hadn't had a period since June 2008 (it was October 2008 at this time) and she goes, "I haven't had a period since April. Isn't it weird? Maybe I should go to the doctor" and she was laughing about it and I was being serious. I told her no because she's on BC, but she kept making it all about herself.

We're no longer friends because I stopped talking to her (Thank God), but at that moment I knew right then and there that she was only in the friendship half-heartedly *if even that*.