How tragic...i'm so sorry what a terrible situation to be in. I just 'celebrated' i guess you could call it, my 5th due date anniversary...the day my girls should have been born, not the date they actually were born and died. It was hard, but for the first time i didnt come on and say anything...to me that in itself was a way of 'moving on'...although i guess here i am doing it anyway...
anyway, give your dh some time to grieve and process his own emotions...he's probably been too busy dealing with yours to really focus on his. Then bring it up again, when his every waking thought isnt trying to make it better for you.
My dh absolutely refused to try again, and when he finally did it was with conditions...that may seem harsh but in his way he was trying to protect me...and himself...from another tragedy. We had one and only one chance to try again...financially and emotionally...and by golly Logan was worth every second of the constant stratagizing and pre-planning...theres no denying though...it was hard. But so worth it.
Good luck and best wishes...
