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Linda27 · 06-29-2009, 07:48 PM

Here's my story. Today it's been 1 week from my D&C. I had an ultrasound at 7.5 weeks and all looked good. Baby measured on time and HB was 156. Three weeks later I went in for my Ob appt and there was no HB and baby still measured at 7.5 weeks but I was 10. At first I opted to miscarry naturally. Right after I made the decision, I started second guessing. I talked to a couple of people including friends who are nurses and most everyone suggested I should do the D&C. The best point that everyone had was if anything, it ensures that everything comes out which reduces the risk of infection. Plus, if it's incomplete, then you end up needing the D&C regardless. The more I thought about it, the more I started to change my mind. With my DD and my job who was being very flexible, I just didn't want to be waiting around. Also, I'm a strong person, but I don't know how well I could have handled it mentally doing it on my own. I scheduled the D&C. The night before I started cramping and bleeding. I only passed clots, not the tissue but it was bad enough for me. I was thankful in the morning that I wouldn't have to go through that. My D&C went well and I felt fine afterwards. Most importantly, it gave me closure and has allowed me to move on. I can't imagine still sitting here a week later waiting for everything to happen. It was a decision that was right for me. Now granted, that was my only one (knock on wood). Have you talked about the "2 in 1 year" concern with your doctor?

I know it's a horrible decision to have to make and there is no "right" answer. I give anyone who has gone through multiple m/c the utmost respect. You have to do what's right for you. If you have concerns about the depression aspect, I would do the D&C. I don't have depression issues and I don't think I could have handled it well. I hope you find your answer and find peace in your time of sadness.