s~tyro

I would choose to have the D&C done. My body had no idea the pregnancy was over, so the thought of waiting for the baby to leave me was something I couldn't deal with emotionally. Plus, my doctor truly felt I would end up needing the D&C in the end...even if I miscarried on my own. Going through the D&C was hard, but miscarrying on my own would've been harder for me.

p.s. Don't feel selfish about having the testing done. We wish we would've had it done...and we wish we would've had an autopsy done on our later pregnancy loss. We just couldn't deal at the time. To do it over again, I would definitely have the testing done to bring me closure.

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