people who dont take the time to learn and understand the condition shouldnt even have their opinions listened too. its ignorant of your mother not to be more supportive of you in a time you really need that extra bit of confidence and love. as much as you cant make her understand what you are going thru and what you are faced with, hopefully with time and possibly a little motivation from you she may change her attitude. i wish you all the luck in conceiving, i can really appreciate how heart breaking it can be to go thru that many m/c, but dont forget you have a son already, and as much as you may want more children, you have a miracle there for you to love and that should be more your focus, rather then on the negative things, cuz that can really bring you down, and possibly make you feel more hopeless. its amazing what a little paradigm shift can do for you.
take care, and we all here have an ear to listen to you with.
heather |