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| My parents and DH parents know we're working with an infertility clinic, I had surgery in June to remove a polyp with septum resection and we told everyone that we have to wait 3 cycles to heal before we can TTC again. Truth is, we started our first round of femara about 6 days after surgery! The only ones that know are a close friend I work with and my boss as she ha to know since I need so much time off from work for morning clinic and such. I agree with everyone else that I simply don't want to hear anyone's comments right now. Some people just don't think before they talk! DH brother is in town from SC with his family and his wife was all over me saying I should have another baby because only children are lonely. I tried to blow her off saying we were happy with one (she's a "just relax and it will happen" kind of girl.... ugh) and I finally just had to smile and leave the room. I did over hear her telling my sister-in-law the same thing about me later. If she only knew how much time and money we've put into trying to get pregnant... trust me, I want this WAY more then she does but I just don't feel comfortable talking to her about this! |
I smiled and laughed at this post!
I too, have been telling everyone "one and done for us" (hopefully I have not jinked us) because it does seem so much easier to say that instead of listen to people.
Work ... that's another issue. I have wondered if I need to tell someone just in case. I work in the ER Friday-Sunday and may need coverage but don't want the one person to tell everyone else....YIKES!