I too had a bad habit of not placing priorities where they belong. And now, I want to be as supportive as I can be.
It is hard for me sometimes because I don't always know what to say. And, let's face it, as the husband I will never know exactly how she feels. The physical and mental pain must be immense.
It breaks my heart when I think of everything we have done with no success and what still lays ahead. The thing that I wish I could fix is when my wife says, "I am sad (or frustrated) about this, and I don't know how to get my head around it." GOSH! I wish I could say something perfect and inspiring and make it all better!
Anyway, thanks for letting me vent. |