I can't believe I read through 12 pages but they were very interesting. I didn't find out that my clitoris was enlarged until I was well into an active sex life. My first partner always did love performing oral sex on me though and it is very enjoyable. I'm actually quite spoiled in that area because it provides the most intense orgasms. As far as my inner labia, they are enlarged and one is significantly bigger than the other due to pulling from either oral sex or getting caught in clothing.
I'm not quite sure everyone realizes this but the clitoris and labia will not get smaller on its own. The clitoris gets enlarged from hormones. The labia will get enlarged from pulling and somewhat from age. Neither of them cause a reason to be ashamed. I love my large clitoris and have never had a complaint from anyone.
When I first learned that mine was enlarged, I did go online to look for comparisons. The only time I've found complaints were from men who have issues with their own masculinity. Those are the ones you'll hear asking if you're a hermaphrodite or if you had a sex change. Don't let the ignorance of others make you ashamed of your body.
