I really know how you feel miss62.
One of the best things that really helped me was two years ago when my family doctor sat me down and told me how big a business Stein Leventhal PCOS was for drs. He said that women will pay nearly anything to get help and several if not all drs trend towards taking advantage of this desperation.
That conversation was so eye opening for me.
I wrote about my experience here in a day by day diary.
My Story....
I hope you find the help you need. I am so much better now than I was 2 yrs ago.