I went in for a scan to check if everything was ok but there was no heartbeat.
I was induced then had to have a D&E.
I spent a little time with my little baby boy. We still have to make up our minds whether to cremate him and take his ahes somewhere beautiful or bury him.
I still havn't the courage to out because everyone I know would see that I am not pregnant anymore.
I am sorry for your loss. I have been where you are so please feel free to pm if you need to talk. This is a great site for support also. (((((hugs)))))
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There is a wonderful group of ladies here that are willing to offer support and words. I have found that out for the 2+ weeks I have been here. ((HUGS))
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Our 5 angels in heaven: Bailey Maya Ruth Avery Aric Alex
I'm so so sorry. I had a late loss too. I was 28 weeks. Everyone knew I was pg. I had to tell so many people.
I went online a lot and researched what had happened to my son, and I also found a ton of poems and sweet quotes. That helped.
We'll always be here if you want to talk, and we'll all be thinking about you.
I'm so sorry. Do you feel like talking more about it? If not, please ignore my asking... did you name your son? And did the doctors suggest any reason he might have passed away? The reason I ask this second question is that most of us want to find some kind of reason, something to blame besides ourselves, especially!! We worked so hard, most of us, to get these babies, and we just can't believe that anything would take them away.
Lots of hugs, and keep in touch. We are here to listen. I also attended an in-person support group at a local hospital, but I wasn't ready for that for a few months. I hope that you are able to find support from your family, too.
__________________ Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.
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Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Lovepotato How did you cope seeing people for the first time without your belly? I am really anxious about it.
Sheri We are pretty sure he is a boy. We have named him Michael. I havn't any test results yet. I am really scared in case I did something like catch an infection that caused his death.
Tasha, i'm just sending you my heartfelt sympathies...i lost my girls at 22 weeks, the days after the shock wore off, let me tell you these girls here were my life line. Everyone deals with things differently, for me getting it all out saved me from blowing up from the inside out. I just know from experience, that if you 'did' catch an infection or something...please please remember that you did nothing wrong..you did everything right...you had no control and you are the best mommy that little angel could have ever had for the short time you spent together. i say this with conviction...cuz when i found out i had an infection i blamed myself to the point of insanity. I spent weeks on the couch in my pjs....totally wiped out. All i can say is to take care of you, and give yourself time, and let me assure you that the days get easier, even though the memories never fade.
__________________ Kim 40 PCOS/IR/IC/PIH/PTL
DS6yrs-preemie-30w)Twins-Met,Prometrium, Puregon Injectibles DS3YRS
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TTC#4 w/Injectibles-IVF conversion/CERCLAGE/6.2mo bedrest/emerg c-sec at 38wks
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((Tasha)). I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my first son, Rivelino (Rivi) at 24 weeks.
We had him cremated and we got a beautiful urn for him. We've decided to bury him with whichever of us dies first. That way we'll always be able to cuddle him. Now I'm crying again.
I'm so sorry that you had to join our sad little club. I know that there's no way I could have survived without these cysters.
Viv we are still trying to decide what to do with the memorial. We just can't decide. The hospital has rung a few times and we havn't been able to say anything.
kwannabee The doctor told us that I may have had an infection such as Parvo virus because the baby had Hydrops which is a lot of fluid.
We have our appointment next week for the test results and I hope that they are all in.
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Angel Oct 2003 9 weeks
Angel July 2004 6 weeks My beautiful little boy I miss you. September 2006 19 weeks
DS 10
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Tasha I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my little girl at 17.3 weeks. It actually took us about 3-4 weeks to make a decision about a month later we we decided to do a cremation. We got the cutest lil urn and one of those neclaces to put some of her ashes in. Whatever you decide take your time.
19 week loss 
