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Old 04-09-2004, 10:08 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi Ladies,

We'll I could never imagine me posting this. Last week I found out I was PG. This week I lost the baby at 5w6d. It was such a night mare. This all happen on Wednesday night and DH works night and I had to go to the ER all alone. but he did come in the middle of the night after I called him.

My only FEAR is not being able to have a child.

If you read in my signature I have done all the fertility treatment and stopped doing it 2 years ago.
This baby was conceived while i was on Herbs and Vitamins and lossing weight.

Is it possible to conceive again???
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Old 04-09-2004, 12:05 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have been where you are right now, and I understand how you feel. My heart goes out to you sweetie. Please allow yourself all the time you need to grieve, and lean on us for support.

In a lot of ways you sound like me. I found out a week before Christmas that I was pg for the first time. I bought everyone gifts like "first-time grandma." The next week I started bleeding and cramping. It was over New Year's so my dr was out-of-town. Going to the ER was a joke (long story). I was scheduled for an u/s the following Monday. My DH couldn't be there with me because he works in Washington DC and is only home on weekends. It's hard being there alone when you first find out about m/c isn't it?

Please feel free to email or pm me anytime you want. I really mean that. I will be praying for you and your family. ((((((big hugs))))))
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Thank you April.

DH and I are upset, but one part of me wants to start trying right again. BUt i will give it a month.

Have you and DH her decided to try again??
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DH and I decided to start trying again right away.

You'll find that you and DH will be going through a whole range of emotions right now. That is perfectly normal and part of the healing process. Keep in mind that men grieve differently than women, so please be patient with DH. Friends and family may not be able to provide you with the level of support you need right now. Just remember the cysters in this forum understand, and we are always willing to listen and help you anyway we can.
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((((hugs Moe))))

I'm so sorry to hear about your m/c. You and your dh are in my thoughts and prayers.

((((more hugs))))
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Sweetie, I am so sorry. I just found out that my baby was dead on Tuesday and had my d&c yesturday, so my pain is still fresh, and I can't offer much support right now. I just wanted to send (((hugs))) your way.
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I am so sorry for your loss.

Your pain is shared by all who have been there.

Just know that you have our deepest sympathies.
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THANK YOU LADIES!!!

I really appreciate everything that you said. Painter I am so SORRY for you loss also you and your DH has my depest sympathy.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I have in your shoes a month ago and it was the hardest thing that I have ever had to deal with. It gets better with time and with the help of a loving DH. You and your husband are in my prayers. Tracy
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