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How y'all doin ?

This is my rant and rave for the day since there is noone here at home for me to go apepoop on ! ha !
We had our first homestudy appt last MAY ! and since then nothing and I mean a big NOTHING has come of it...The Ontario Gov't is draggin their arse sooooo badly with the approval for Kaz I cant stand it...We are even seriously considering going with Belarus then we can be home by Summer with our son...but I am not sure about the affects on the children from the Chernobyl incident on one hand people are like "Nah its nothin" then I dig on the computer and it frightens the heck outta me...
I gues my biggest rant here is that I am still not a parent...I have wanted it soooo badly for sooooo long and when we made the decision to adopt I was so relieved and ready to go upon this journey...now I am tired...so so tired of waiting and being not sure...the agency is GREAT mind you and always willing to answer any questions or concerns we have....I am even considering just giving up and waiting until I am 30 so that we can go and get our China girl which was our original intention but then we found out we cant adopt until we are both 30 from China...

ANYWAYS !!! Thanks for listening...Hopefully we will hear something soon and I will be as happy as a pig in poop ! LOL !

Anxiously ripping my hair out
hate to complain but gotta do it.....
Amy

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Lisa67

Sorry I just saw your post! I hope you are feelling somewhat better after letting that off your chest.

Your circumstance sounds quite frustrating. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but unfortunately I do not. I just wanted you to know someone is thinking of you tonight.

Lots of hugs,
Lisa

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KGJacob

I don't even know what to say. I have to wonder sometimes why it seems like all this is happening to us. First, we can't conceive. You would think the karma in the universe would give us a break and let the adoption process go easy, kind of as a make up for the no conceiving thing. But it doesn't seem to happen that way.

Hang in there and accept these hugs from south of the border.

MicKen

Have you considered Ukraine? We had such a wonderful experience there, that that is now the only country we would probably ever adopt from again (or China, but we had the same problem as you...when I started this process I was not yet 30).

The only thing is you have to be sure you have a good facilitator. And, it is harder to find girls now. And yes, you can't adopt a child under the age of 14 months unless the child is ill.

BUT...we started the adoption process in feb of this year and returned home with our son (my adorable little toddler who is in to EVERYTHING right now ) in late september. I'd say that was pretty good!

I have never been happier. And I loved Ukraine. Just a thought.

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