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Old 05-06-2005, 04:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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hello I just wondered what this could mean.

my m/c bleeding stopped 2 weeks ago and 2 days ago I got AF. I was told to expect to wait 4-6 weeks until AF but I'm totally confused. Does this mean I have no luteal phase now? I wonder whether I should go to the doctor but my chinese doctor said its just a sign of my body being weak and that I need to make my body and mind strong. I need to stop thinking basically because that makes me sick.

Has this happened to any one else?

Plus, I just feel so sensitive at the moment, any criticism seems to make me so fatigued at that point in time that I just want to fall and cry... I know this is emotional upset but its there... I'm up and down like a yoyo and feel alot of self loathing sometimes.....does anyone else feel like this?
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Old 05-06-2005, 04:43 PM   #2 (permalink)
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((HUGS)). Expect your body to be screwy for a while. Your hormones are still a mess, so it doesn't know what it's doing. If you don't stop bleeding in a week, then go see your doc. But I'm thinking this is normal, just chaotic hormones.
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Old 05-06-2005, 05:05 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I totally agree with Viv. You can have some strange cycles, including the crazy hormones that you're so emotional with, for a few months sometimes. Talk to your doc if you are feeling dangerously depressed or really can't take it anymore.
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Old 05-06-2005, 05:21 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I'm going through this a bit myself right now. I find myself okay one minute and then sobbing the next. It is an emotional roller coaster, but I will say that I'm feeling a bit better since my hormones are working themselves out. I stopped bleeding three days ago, and was told that after something like this that your AF can either come immediately or take several weeks. I think it takes a bit of time to get cycles regular as well. Not sure though?
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Old 05-07-2005, 02:05 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Hi ladies- I just want to let you ladies know I don't post alot but I read alot. It seems like when everything starts getting to me, I get on the computer go here and it calms me down. It's been 3wks since and I never know what kind of mood I'm going to be in. I feel very cranky today. Wonder if it's PMS. Sure feels like it. I keep thinking of Mother's Day tommorrow and I'm so blessed to have a 3yr old but I still keep thinking my second should be almost 2 months and it's only been 3 wks since m/c #2. Why does it feel so personal? Like God hates you.
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Cassidy,

It feels so personal because we think of God as our protector. He's not supposed to let stuff like this happen to us. So, when we DO lose our babies, it feels like we must have done something wrong for Him NOT to protect us. And those feelings are all normal. I didn't talk to God for months after Rivi died, and I just recently started trying to have a relationship with Him. And I still yell at Him, but I'm sure He understands!

Yes, you're blessed to have your 3 year old, but s/he can't replace the little one who's gone. That baby is a separate person altogether, and it's okay to miss him/her while you still hold tight to the one you got to keep.

Your crankiness could be PMS, but since it's only been 3 weeks, I'm thinking it's probably just wacky hormones trying to balance themselves out. Add your grief to the mix, and you're a mess. We're here if you need us!

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