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Old 12-24-2007, 11:26 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default To all Mommies this Christmas...

I know you are all thinking of your angels, as i am thinking of mine. This was a special note given to me by a soul cyster a long time ago that i saved, and a friend who just went through the loss of her baby sent it back to me. I thought you might like it.

My heartfelt wishes of peace and comfort go out to all of you, new and old, who are thinking of your babies today, this day of joy and celebration...i know its hard to feel the way we think we should when we have so much sorrow too...but i know our babies are watching over us all...many many hugs to all...



WHAT MAKES A MOTHER

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "what Makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard him say,
"A Mother has a baby"
This we know is true
But, God, can you be a mother
When your baby's not with you?


"Yes, you can," he replied
With confidence in his voice
"I give many women babies
When they leave it is not their choice
Some I send for a lifetime
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb
But there's no need to stay."
I just don't understand this God
I want my baby here


He took a breath and cleared his throat
And then I saw a tear
"I wish I could show you
What your child is doing today
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say,
'We go to earth to learn our lessons
of love and life and fear
My mommy loved me so much
I got to come straight here
I feel so lucky to have a Mom who had so much
love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My Mommy set me free.


I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day
When she goes to sleep
On her pillows where I lay
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And whisper in her ear
Mommy don't be sad today
I'm your baby and I am here'



"So you see my dear sweet one
Your children are okay
Your babies are here in My home
And this is where they'll stay
They'll wait for you with Me
Until your lessons are through
And on the day you come home
they'll be at the gates for you


So now you see
What makes a Mother
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start
Though some on earth
May not realize
Until their time is done
Remember all the love you have
And know that you are
A Special Mom"

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Old 12-24-2007, 07:13 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Love ya, girl. Thank you!

And a very special Christmas wish for everyone here, a little peace in our aching hearts!
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Old 12-24-2007, 11:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I love that poem Kim!!

Today is Kenny and Katie's 5th Heavenly birthday...hard to believe that they would be 5 if they had lived.

Hugs to you too as all our angels watch over us!!!!
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Old 12-25-2007, 01:16 AM   #4 (permalink)
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you know i luv you gals too...we've been through alot

and HEIDI!! i didnt know!!! email me chickie...you've got some shplainin' to do girlfriend!!! my xmas ecard bounced back - now i know why youve been so busy!
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Old 12-30-2007, 02:35 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Beautiful. Thank you for sharing!!
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