jess02

Ok... some background. I'm suppose to be getting married in July. My fiance' and I are going to move to Tennessee because that is where is currently living for the past month. I want to move there also, but I don't know if part of me wants to move there because I would be running away from everything here. Do you think it has to do with PCOS and depression? I just don't know what to do. I love him and want to be with him more than anything.

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nightrider

Hi Jessi

I wouldn't say that it is running away.
It is natural to be worried about leaving a familiar place, and all your family and friends.
Talk to your fiance about this but if you are really serious about this guy and want to be with him, I say go for it.

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RaeBolt06

Like Nightrider said I think if you are SERIOUS about him you should definitely go for it. From talking to you online I definitely think you are. Just know its hard being away from what's familar. Trust me. It may not be easy at first but i think you'll be fine once you get through that. Im excited for you. I just hope your HAPPY! You better be or else I may have to kick your butt. Ha ha . just kidding

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LookingForHope16

Jess -- Ash and Rach are right. It's tough being away from the family and familiar areas!

I moved away from home with Amanda in May of last year. It was tough.

I believe that part of it may be just due to the jitters. Just think it out carefully and I wish you the best!! *hugs*

Erika Leigh

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jess02

Thanks girls for all your input. I've decided I'm going to do it. Hey Rach... we'll be closer!!!! YAY!!!!!!!! lol

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RaeBolt06

Jessi, I agree with Erika. It can be really tough. REALLY REALLY tough. Just make sure you have an idea to what your getting yourself into. There is really no way for you to without first experiencing it. It seems at the moment that it will be GREAT. But it usually isn't GREAT at first. Just be aware that it can well it just will b e HARD. Good Luck !


I know! lol your such a dork you know that?

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HOLLAND

When you get married that's just how it is. When both live in different places you have to decide on one. If Tenn. seems to be the best place for now then go with it. My DH lived in Europe when we got married. I moved there to live after. It actually felt good to have a new start. Eventually we decided to move to the US. I say go for it. Just consider it as a new experience for you.

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haha I know I'm a dork but and excited dork I am. hahahaha

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LookingForHope16

Yeah, things can be rough and tight in the beginning. Just hang in there.

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have you been there before? maybe you should, just to get a feel for the place?

I think it's just the jitters, everyone has to deal with this kind of separation one time in their lives.. either getting MARRIED! and moving or going away to college , etc.

I hope you'll find some peace.

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LookingForHope16

that is a good point.

the place that I moved too i had spent hanging out with friends.

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