My co-worker announced she's pregnant on Wed of this week when I was out of the office on business. I just found out today and gathered barely enough self control to hug her and congratulate her without crying. Barely. I am TRULY happy for her. The reason I'm so emotional and upset isn't because "I wish it was me". I mean, I wish it was me every DAY! To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. I'm upset b/c I thought it would get easier with time to hear people announce their pregnancy. But it just gets harder. And this is another "first" for me - having someone I see everyday be pregnant. So far, it's only been friends who are out of state, or who I see every so often, or who are friends of friends... nobody I see, literally, everyday.
I can do this, right? I mean, it's going to be fun having someone in the office who is pregnant and wants to talk baby stuff!
It's just the last few months have brought a lot "firsts": being the only couple without kids at a party, etc. I'm thinking this does not get any easier at all,and I need to develop some habits to handle these situations NOW!
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Met ER, 2000mg Clomid 50mg, 8.2009 - BFN
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I don't know about it being fun but it will be okay. I had to sit next to a pregnant coworker (now out on maternity leave) and it was definitely hard at first. Especially because I could hear her talking to her family and friends on the phone after each doc appt. Telling them how it went and what the dr said and how strong the heartbeat sounded. I had to fight the urge to tell her to shut up sometimes. It wasn't her I was mad at anyway so it wouldn't have been fair for me to go off on her.
My point is while it's not going to be an ideal situation, you will get thru it. I managed to get thru it and I'm definitely not the most patient and accepting person lol. GL to you and I hope you get your BFP soon!
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Me-27; DH-29
08/31/09 - 50 mg Clomid (days 5-9)
09/09/09 - Trigger shot (Ovidrel)
09/27/09 - AF is here (BFN for round 1)
10/01/09 - 100 mg Clomid (days 5-9) - BUST
10/14/09 - Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy
11/10/09 - 1st injects cycle on Follistim - Cancelled due to overstimulation.
12/01/09 - Birth control thru the end of the year hoping to start my 2nd injects cycle in Jan 2010.
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I know how you feel...back in April I was in my tww after my 4th round of clomid. It was too early for me to test but when one of my coworkers took her test at work on April fools of all days and got her bfp I got so caught up in the moment that I went home and tested too...on a digital no less & got the beautiful word we all want, pregnant, problem was it turned out to just be my trigger and I was crushed!! So she was really pregnant & I was not. And I work with mostly women and they know of my struggles. Everyone kept saying...everytime someone is pregnant in the office at least 2 other ladies end up pregnant...your going to be next Christina!! Well that didn't happen, lol. I'm still patiently waiting!
It hasn't been too bad working with her but I have had a couple of days where I go to the bathroom to cry a little, like the day she brought ultrasound pics. Anyways I'm sure you will make the best of the next 9 months at work and I hope it's not too hard on you!
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08/09- HSG all clear! SA is great!! 10/09- Repronex + trigger...
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i just had a pregnant coworker, she is on maternity leave now, and another one of my coworkers is pregnant now. announced it last month. she's due on my birthday. my coworkers don't know about my struggles - only ONE, and she wouldn't ever say anything to hurt my feelings. all i can say is, it does get easier. all of her firsts are going to hurt - first sono, etc. but for me, after a couple of weeks my brain just didn't care anymore. once the shock wears off, you'll be okay. but i just want to say, it's okay to cry. it's okay to be confused and sad and shake your fists at God. *hugs* good luck hun.
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Another "First" 
