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Old 10-04-2005, 05:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Anybody else dream on what they had after a m/c?

A few weeks after the m/c happened I had a dream about the angel we lost. It was angelic in form so could not tell the gender. I always had an instinct on what it was but never really told anybody about it....but last night had a very vivid dream that I delivered a lil boy on its due date and named him Luke--I new in my heart that it was a boy but this just made it ever so real. He was a spitten image of his daddy. 7lbs and 7oz with light hair. I dont know if this dream helped or hindered the healing process but maybe it will help me move on a little bit more.
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Old 10-04-2005, 05:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I had a dream shortly after I m/c'd. In it I saw my grandma holding my baby and singing to her. (My grandma died when I was 12). That dream helped me a lot with healing b/c I knew that my baby wasn't alone. I am a firm believer in the afterlife and after that dream I knew that my baby was with my grandmother and that my grandma was taking care of her.
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It is weird that you bring this up because I also had a dream a couple of days after the miscarriage. I dreamed I had a little girl and I pictured her vividly, but she was about 3 or 4 years old. When I was pregnant, I always thought I was carrying a boy, but that dream was SO real it was scary. I didn't tell my husband about it for about two weeks because I didn't want him to think I was crazy! Your dreams were both very sweet. God bless you and your angels!


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I had a dream the day before our loss. I dreamed that I was giving away all my mat. clothes, but held on to one pair of pants, claiming that I'd need them again later on. Quite strange because I didn't remember the dream until during the miscarriage. Evidentally enough, I did need those pants for our second pregnancy.

After the miscarriage, I don't really remember, it's been 4 years. But just recently I had a dream with a little boy in it. In the dream I couldn't figure out who he was, but when I woke up, I realized it was my son. Quite amazing.

Some times our dreams are pictures of what our hearts are feeling. Though we fall asleep, it seems our hearts never do.

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I didn't M/C - I had a later loss. I know what Rivi looked like, which I guess makes my dreams seem more logical. After he died, I'd dream about him all the time. In the dreams, we were sitting next to a stream talking. He was about 3-4 years old. I don't think I went to Heaven to see him, but I like to think that he was able to meet me somewhere in the middle of there and here to let me know he's okay.

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after our baby died and was born they couldnt tell the gender by looking because she was so swollen and was still in the sac. I had the same dream over and over of rocking in a rocking chair with a pink blanket and i would always lift the flap to find the blanket empty. I would always wake up hysterical and i told dh one night that if the tests never showed anything i knew it was a girl and way later the tests finally came back and it was a girl. freaked dh out a little, and me too
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After my MC I had a dream that my little angel was a girl. I could see what she looked like. In my dream she was about 6 months old and I was at the nail salon getting my nails done and my DH brought her to the salon. He held her up in the window befor walking in and she was laughing and kicking her chubby legs. She was SO cute.

And when my DS was about 6 months old he looked very much like the baby I dreamed of. I know she came to say goodbye to me in my dream and she showed me how happy she was.

Oh gosh...I am making myself more depressed that I am already today.

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I had a little boy in my dream but he was about 4 or so in the dream with blond hair and a blue and red striped shirt with an ear to ear grin
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