Links | Links 2 | Links 3 | Links 4 |

Go Back   PCOS Message Board > The Mother 'Hood' > Coping with Pregnancy Loss

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 09-15-2008, 12:35 PM   #1 (permalink)
It will only be a memory
 
MiniGidget's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Birmingham, AL
Posts: 386
Blog Entries: 4
My Mood:
MiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really nice
Points: 11,705.11
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 11,705.11
Default Anyone else with an ectopic on the ovary?

Hi! I was diagnosed with a ruptured ovarian ectopic yesterday. The pain was excrutiating, but it has improved. They decided to treat it with methotrexate b/c my body had already ruptured the sac on its own. I'm just wondering if anyone else has experience with this? I know ovarian ectopics are rare and I'm apparently a freak oddity--but is there anyone else with experience?

I'm wondering b/c I'm still sore today. Not really pain like yesterday--just sore to touch, move, urinate, etc. My backache continues. I assume all of this is from the fluid in my pelvis from the rupture--that's what they told me yesterday anyway.

I have an appointment with the RE tomorrow, but I want to know what to expect. How long for the soreness? How long until we can have sex again (not that I am even considering it right now)? I've been told no vitamins right now and I'm apparently going to have to go on BCP's until my beta hits zero--then we can start trying again. I hate hate hate hate hate BCP's. Grrrr.

Any advice is appreciated.
__________________
Becca (29) and DH (28)
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ectopic Sept 08
My blog:
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
MiniGidget is offline   Reply With Quote

Sponsored Links
Old 09-22-2008, 06:04 PM   #2 (permalink)
Sad and Happy Mom
 
SheriKCMO's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Kansas City, MO
Posts: 6,013
SheriKCMO is a splendid one to beholdSheriKCMO is a splendid one to beholdSheriKCMO is a splendid one to beholdSheriKCMO is a splendid one to beholdSheriKCMO is a splendid one to beholdSheriKCMO is a splendid one to beholdSheriKCMO is a splendid one to behold
Points: 113,358.82
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 113,358.82
Default

I'm very sorry for your loss! And I'm sorry I didn't notice your thread until now. I hope you are having some better days physically... it helps to get past the physical recovery so that emotional health can get started. (((Hugs)))
__________________
Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs

First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks

Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Duncan 2/11/05, 9lb 3oz
Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Ruby 2/27/06, 9lbs
SheriKCMO is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-22-2008, 06:31 PM   #3 (permalink)
Registered User
 
siany22's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: live in north wales in the uk
Posts: 2,427
My Mood:
siany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond repute
Points: 64,435.85
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 64,435.85
Default

im sorry i didnt notice this thread either i went through an ectopic in april, you should be able to BD now, but you wont be able to TTC for 3 months as the methotrexate stays in your system.

im so sorry for your loss ((((hugs))))
__________________
SIAN XX
me-25 DH-34
m/c 2004
bfp round 5 clomid bfp march 08 but ended in ectopic.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.





To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
siany22 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-22-2008, 06:41 PM   #4 (permalink)
Caribbean Cysters
 
SandV's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: St Lucia by way of New Jersey
Posts: 1,492
My Mood:
SandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant future
Points: 49,256.62
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 49,256.62
Default

I am so sorry for you loss. I had a tubal ectopic 5 months ago. I did have to have the tube removed due to rupture. I just wanted to let you know, my dr made me take BCPs for 3 cycles after I had one cycle on my own as well. She wanted my insides to settle down after all the trauma before we started to TTC again. I wish you the best.
__________________
Me
DSS 5/30/04 (always will be mine)


Baby Aspirin
HSG 8/26/08 - right fimbria congested with hydrosalpinx
Ectopic PG 4/23/08 (8 wks) Salpingectomy 4/23/08 (left)
Dx PCOS 1993

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
SandV is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-22-2008, 09:18 PM   #5 (permalink)
It will only be a memory
 
MiniGidget's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Birmingham, AL
Posts: 386
Blog Entries: 4
My Mood:
MiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really nice
Points: 11,705.11
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 11,705.11
Default

Well--maybe my RE is crazy--but he said we can go ahead and start trying as soon as I have a normal period (god knows when that will be). He said there shouldn't be any damage b/c it didn't rupture the tube, so we're good. I asked him about the methotrexate, and he said since it was such a small dose it's out of your body quickly. He did say that some doctors make women wait to "emotionally heal" but that he wasn't going to do that. I hope this is a good idea....
__________________
Becca (29) and DH (28)
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ectopic Sept 08
My blog:
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
MiniGidget is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-24-2008, 01:48 PM   #6 (permalink)
Registered User
 
siany22's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: live in north wales in the uk
Posts: 2,427
My Mood:
siany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond reputesiany22 has a reputation beyond repute
Points: 64,435.85
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 64,435.85
Default

i didnt think you could ttc at all for 3 months after methotrexate, but i guess your doctor knows best
__________________
SIAN XX
me-25 DH-34
m/c 2004
bfp round 5 clomid bfp march 08 but ended in ectopic.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.





To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
siany22 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2008, 09:13 PM   #7 (permalink)
Registered User
 
mkbaby74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Michigan
Posts: 13
My Mood:
mkbaby74 is on a distinguished road
Points: 1,380.97
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 1,380.97
Default

Sorry to not answer sooner I just saw this post. I too know about being the odd person. I did not have an ectopic on my ovary but I had one in my cervix. They had to go in surgically and they shot methotrexate right into where the baby was. I was in bed for a couple days and I had bleeding and cramping. I hope you are doing well, or as well as can be expected. Hang in there. ((HUGS))
__________________
Michelle


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


Me 34 DH 42
TTC since 2000
Diagnosed with PCOS 2004
1500 mg metformin
4 angel babies
#1 mc at 6 weeks 01/2005
#2 ectopic (cervical) 8 weeks 03/2006
#3 mc at 6 weeks 07/2007
#4 ectopic 6 weeks 07/2008
mkbaby74 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2008, 09:34 PM   #8 (permalink)
It will only be a memory
 
MiniGidget's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Birmingham, AL
Posts: 386
Blog Entries: 4
My Mood:
MiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really nice
Points: 11,705.11
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 11,705.11
Default

I'm doing much better. I ended up passing the material last week. My betas are still up, but they've come down from a high of 14,000 2 weeks ago to 4,000 today. I think when i start ttc again is a mute point b/c my betas are really preventing anything right now!

BTW--Methotrexate is an awful drug! I had no idea how bad I'd feel. There have been days where I really wished I had just had surgery!
__________________
Becca (29) and DH (28)
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ectopic Sept 08
My blog:
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
MiniGidget is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2008, 09:50 PM   #9 (permalink)
Caribbean Cysters
 
SandV's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: St Lucia by way of New Jersey
Posts: 1,492
My Mood:
SandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant future
Points: 49,256.62
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 49,256.62
Default

Mini- the dr didn't even check my betas/HCG after the ectopic. In fact, it was 53 days after the surgery when I got AF. But I did O on my own again that cycle. I was on BCPs the next 3 cycles until the dr felt comfortable with my uterus being healed.

Hope you feel better soon.
__________________
Me
DSS 5/30/04 (always will be mine)


Baby Aspirin
HSG 8/26/08 - right fimbria congested with hydrosalpinx
Ectopic PG 4/23/08 (8 wks) Salpingectomy 4/23/08 (left)
Dx PCOS 1993

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
SandV is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2008, 10:10 PM   #10 (permalink)
It will only be a memory
 
MiniGidget's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Birmingham, AL
Posts: 386
Blog Entries: 4
My Mood:
MiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really niceMiniGidget is just really nice
Points: 11,705.11
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 11,705.11
Default

Thanks SandV! You know what bums me out the most--that we won't be able to announce our pregnancy at Thanksgiving to our families like we had hoped. It seems like such a stupid thing to get sad over, but I still am! Oh well, maybe we'll have a little one by next Thanksgiving (or at least one on the way, god willing!).
__________________
Becca (29) and DH (28)
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ectopic Sept 08
My blog:
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
MiniGidget is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-03-2008, 10:14 PM   #11 (permalink)
Caribbean Cysters
 
SandV's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: St Lucia by way of New Jersey
Posts: 1,492
My Mood:
SandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant futureSandV has a brilliant future
Points: 49,256.62
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 49,256.62
Default

I know how upsetting it is. I was upset about mine, because I would have been an expecting Mommy on Mother's day. It was very hard for me to get through the loss. But like you said, God willing next year.
__________________
Me
DSS 5/30/04 (always will be mine)


Baby Aspirin
HSG 8/26/08 - right fimbria congested with hydrosalpinx
Ectopic PG 4/23/08 (8 wks) Salpingectomy 4/23/08 (left)
Dx PCOS 1993

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
SandV is offline   Reply With Quote

Sponsored Links
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Post: 5.00

» Watch PCOS Videos

Living with PCOS...
This is a look into a womans life with PCOS. a education video i made so people can better understan...

{widget place holder} {widget place holder}
 
Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.0.1

All times are GMT -3. The time now is 12:09 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.0
Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.1.0
copyright 2002-2004