Anyone not really TTC but no BC- maybe baby?TMI

MissExtremist · 07-19-2006, 06:42 PM

Well, i am not TTC now as much as id love to because i wanna lose some weight first so i can try to avoid another hard pregnancy with high blood pressure and emergency c-section. We just lost our apartment to a flood and now living with my FIL so yah, not so great times. I am not on BC or any contraception for that matter because i am personaly against it, if i get pregnant it would be a miracle anyway . The only thing the doc told me was " if you want more kids, you better have them now" so talk about conflicting! So my dh decided to surprise me on day 8 of my cycle with releasing his tagpoles ( if ya know what i mean) because he thought i wanted to TTC cuz i was just DX w/ pcos & was freaking out about not being able to get pregnant again cuz of the cysts they just found on my ovaries. Other then that there were a few other times but no "tagpoles" because i just didnt feel like leaking all day LOL and plus became devoted to losing weight first. My cycle most of the time is 30-32 days. I highly doubt i could get pregnant from a BD on day 8 but theres always the case of " slippery slidders" as i like to call them , meaning a lil tagpole might slip out without knowing it- and my son was a "slippery slidder" baby after i stop TTC for 3 years. So day 20 now, i had strange uterus/ovary twinges the past few days so i assumed it was ovulation. Last night i had some dots of blood when i wiped which never happen to me before and AF aint due for at least another 10 days...so the first thing that ran thru my mind was "possible implantation bleeding?" I just cant imagine that i conceived but now i am getting all those "what ifs" Hmmmm, so maybe next week ill go get a Hgc blood test done........Just wondering if anyone is going thru a similar thing or can relate ???

Purple_monkfish · 07-20-2006, 01:17 PM

Ahhh yes... I wasn't on any contraceptives either... can't stand condoms and can't take the pill... besides... having PCOS I was told it was unlikely i'd fall pregnant naturally anyway... however... there came a scare... No af... now this wasn't much to be concerned over... after all... I often go without my period for a month... and I hadn't really been taking my medication too well at that point... so I figured i'd wait and see... month two came round.. still no A/f and now... nausea had started... at this point I looked to my man and said "we have to get a test done"... so at 6 in the morning I bounded into the room to show him the lovely clear cross on that HPT... "that's a cross isn't it" I asked... and he just grinned... so yeah...
Now as my ticker shows... we're getting there slowly...
I wish you the best of luck... whichever way you want this to go.

I know that I had very very faint bleeding sometime between the due date for A/F 1 and 2... and thought I'd start bleeding any day... I warned my man that i might need him to go get me painkillers and all that... but then... nothing came. Implantation bleeding apparently... though at the time I didn't realise this. I associated the cramps with impending A/F and it was only really when I skipped 2 periods I decided to test... and the nausea was a major factor too... once that started I knew I was either very ill.. or pregnant. hahah

Dani · 07-21-2006, 08:48 PM

I wasn't ttc when I got pg...for me it was a happy surprise...I was trying to lose weight and we were to start fertility treatments in 4 months. 10 years of no bcp and no protection and no pregnancy but.....some miracle worked in Feburary and I am pg now. I also had light bleeding due to implantation....just remember any baby is God given and maybe even if you didn't think it was time.....He did.....

Hope everything works out for you

MissExtremist · 07-21-2006, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Dani

I wasn't ttc when I got pg...for me it was a happy surprise...I was trying to lose weight and we were to start fertility treatments in 4 months. 10 years of no bcp and no protection and no pregnancy but.....some miracle worked in Feburary and I am pg now. I also had light bleeding due to implantation....just remember any baby is God given and maybe even if you didn't think it was time.....He did.....

Hope everything works out for you

Thanks, trust me i know how precious babies are and to me they should never be considered a burden but a miracle always . Too bad society has different views.

When i was pregnant with my son, it was healthiest i ever was. Meanwhile all i ate was muffins and ice cream when i was pregnant but i still didnt gain much weight and lost a lot of weight right after i had him. So i know if i was pregnant, it wouldnt be too bad weight wise especially if i cut out sugar this time. But i would always feel guilty if any health problems arised and i know the doctor would blame it on my weight. but i would LOVE to be pregnant now.

Anyway, im hoping to get a blood test monday or tuesday...