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Old 08-29-2007, 03:40 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Anyway have a blighted ovum with good progesterone levels? (pg ment)

I know I shouldn't ask this because I know someone is going to say YES and then I am just going to freak out but oh well. I have 2 days to go here till I find out and I am going INSANE.

I am pregnant again and everything looks good by the numbers. Betas good, p4 was 197. Thing is up until about 6pm yesterday I felt 100% positive this pregnancy would work out but since then I have been 100% sure I am going to get bad news at my scan on Friday. Can't shake the feeling.

I think I feel like, well, the last 3 times it didn't work out - why will this be any different?

Anyway I am really hanging my hopes on the high p4 meaning good egg quality. I know betas don't mean much since my first miscarriage (BO) my betas were great - but my P4 was only 17 or so. My second m/c was a chemical preg and I never had p4 checked. My third m/c (embryo died 3-4 days after we saw the heartbeat) my p4 was 12 or 15 AND the betas were bad.

I'm really hoping here but scared $#%@less things are going to go sour again.
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Hang in there darlin- Everything sounds like its going well. Fear is such a factor sometimes... ((hugs)) I've never heard of that happening.. that I can remember.. which doesn't say much.. but take a few breaths... that beta looked good...and P4 even better... Maybe it is going to be a healthy pregnancy? ((hugs)) thinking of you!
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Old 08-30-2007, 11:59 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I know its hard, but try not to scare yourself to much. You have GREAT looking numbers!! I had 1 m/c before I had ds, then 3 between ds and dd, and 1 after dd. Never lose hope. Just take things one day at a time, and you'll get there in the end. I have my fingers crossed for you. But I really think you're doing great. ((HUGS))
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Old 08-30-2007, 01:19 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Runnerduck - good luck tomorrow. I know what it's like to feel like something is not right, but please try not to freak yourself out too much. Your numbers do look really good. Our thoughts are with you and please let us know how the u/s goes tomorrow.
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Runner, with my 2 bo, I didn't have my progesterone checked, so I am of no help but I did want to say that I think your numbers are GREAT! and your p4!! Well, maybe more than 1 bean in there!
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Thank you all for your replies. Scan went sort of well - no heartbeat but blighted ovum possibility is ruled out. Hoping for better news in a week.
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RunnerDuck - Congratulations!!!!! I'm so glad everything is OK!
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Thanks Tensei! I'm still scared to death of another loss, though. I bounce between thinking for sure this one won't be another loss and thinking for sure it will. So much anxiety!
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