This thread was started for those of us who had April 2009 due dates but suffered heartbreaking losses. However, anyone who suffered a loss is welcome.
Alisha - I read your blog. It may sound cheesy but it was beautiful, almost made me weepy. I guess I'm just so glad that you got some answers so that you can move forward. The dr sounds great. A good dr can make a world of difference. And it definitely sounds promising for next time. ((Hugs))
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BeBe (28) and Jermaine (26)
My Angel
Braelyn Shanteah
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just marking my spot, too And yes, the RIGHT doctor can make all the difference in the world!!
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Can't give up now, not when we have twin angels on our side...
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FET 10/23/09... beta check 11/2/09... go snowbabies!
Thanks Bebe. You don't sound cheesey at all! You sound pregnant! lol! No just kidding! Thank you for reading and thinking it was beautiful. Your support means so much. ((HUGS)) back to you...just because
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IT'S A BOY!!
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Proud Mama of the Amazing Rockstar - born 10/16/09
Sadly my babies went to heaven too soon at 15 weeks (October 2008)
Hi ladies-How have u all been?
I am about to start a new job soon,move....life as I know it has turned topsy turvy....finding it so tuff to cope with the pressures & demands at work.
Good luck with all the big changes IMG!! Be sure to take extra special care of you and your baby-on-board ***hugs***
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Can't give up now, not when we have twin angels on our side...
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1st embryo transfer 9/1 - BFN
FET 10/23/09... beta check 11/2/09... go snowbabies!
I can imagine the ride you are on IMG. But guess what? The great news is that you are more pregnant than you have ever been (right?) and on your way to bringing home a beautiful bundle of joy.
I need to vent here...somewhere. I have a cousin who announced that she is pregnant today. It wouldn't make me angry if it weren't for the circumstances. Her second pregnancy was reportedly accidental after another cousin of ours (who also struggled with infertility) had her first miscarriage. Well, last year this cousin announced she was done having children. Then, my DH and I get pregnant and we miscarry. Guess what happened? The cousin with the accident,......looks like she "accidentally" got pregnant again. It freaking pisses me off so bad. I can't help but think that these really aren't accidents--and somehow it would be easier to accept if she would just admit that she is a freaking selfish butthole who can't stand for anyone else to "have their moment." Now--I have to pretend to be happy for her when I can't stand the sight of her and just thinking about all of this makes me want to scream and cry at the same time. I really think I need an antidepressant. I just don't know how much more ttc I can take.
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hugs to you becca. How does DH cope with it all? Are you guys talking about it?
__________________ ME/DH 32 TTC since 2001 DX 2002
Proud Mama of the Amazing Rockstar - born 10/16/09
Sadly my babies went to heaven too soon at 15 weeks (October 2008)
We are. He's great. He thinks she is selfish and probably did do it on purpose, but he thinks it's because they are having marriage problems and have considered divorce and this may be a last-ditch effort for them to save a rocky marriage. I like his thought better than mine. At least with that thought, I can feel some compassion for her. I have to admit that having a child to save her marriage when she is a SAHM with no career prospects is troublesome--but it's her life.
My DH has actually been my rock throughout all of this. He's been awesome. We were talking last night, and he feels like he'd rather be in our position--trying to have a baby in a happy marriage rather than trying to have a baby to save a bad marriage. It's a nice thought, and I really appreciate him for it!
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Becca, it sounds like he's got the right idea. *hugs* While I can admit I too would be pissed beyond belief, I know DH would tell me the same thing. Then again, I hate it when he's right about stuff like this - takes the wind right out of my sails. But I guess all we can do is have the strongest marriage we can, which provides a wonderfully loving an stable home, and the baby will somehow find us...
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Can't give up now, not when we have twin angels on our side...
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1st embryo transfer 9/1 - BFN
FET 10/23/09... beta check 11/2/09... go snowbabies!
April 2009 Due Date Losses - Part 3 
