saiph

Dp and I decided that, due to timing of our work and our upcoming wedding (woohoo, it's about time after 5 1/2 yrs) we would start TTC in June, but now that we've made the decision it's killing me to wait. I bought all these baby books and amuse myself by telling dp all the horrible side effects of pregnancy to make her feel better about me being pg first. (Increased metallic tasting saliva??? Really???)

I'm a total drama queen, hehe, and have visions of standing up at our wedding reception, which we're holding over Thanksgiving, and announcing to everyone that we're pg (assuming we actually get pg quickly). It would be bedlam with everyone jumping up and running around, I think it would be GREAT. Dp thinks this is her worse nightmare

We're not telling anyone when we start TTC, mostly b/c if we have a hard time I don't want people asking about it all the time, but also b/c I'm so excited about it being a surprise for our families (it would be the first grandbaby on both sides).

Sarelle

Saiph-Congrats on the wedding! Sounds like you will have your hands full if you try and do both! I know what you mean about not telling anyone abut TTC, we are doing the same thing. We told parents and very close friends and that is it!

Use the time to plan everything though, because once the process starts everything happens so quickly.