So, 4 people that I have regular contact with announced their pregnancies yesterday. The kicker? Every single one of them is due within 7 days of my old due date. I was starting to feel a lot better, but now, I honestly feel like someone ripped my heart out. How do I go about my life for the next 8 months and watch these women in exactly the place I was supposed to be?
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Round #1 (Take 2): Femara 5 mg cd3-7, trigger
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oh hun ..that is so tough.. I don't have any answers for you ..I just wanted to say I am sorry for your loss. and send you a virtual hug
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Kyra Grace born 6/24/06 - my heart
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I'm so sorry. I have two around me that are due at the same time I was. I have no answers for how to deal with it. I see them in their materinity clothes and all I can think is - I need new black pants...I was supposed to be buying maternity clothes and that's why I didn't get them when I needed them in the first place. On those days (which is about every day), I just start thinking about what our plans are for the next few months and that soon enough, we'll be trying again. I don't know that it really helps, but that's all I've found so far to help me get through it.
__________________ Diagnosed - 2004
Started TTC - May 2008
Thanks ladies, my mood has lifted a little bit since this morning. In a way I am glad they all decided to announce it early, this way I have time to cope before they start actually looking pregnant. I am doing exactly what you said Jules and trying to look forward to the future. We have a vacation coming up in a little less than 2 months, and as soon as I get back we can start trying again. The planning is giving me something to focus my attention on so I do not have to think about it as much. I am terrified that it will not work as quickly this time, and even more scared that it will work and then I will be petrified of something going wrong.
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Round #1 (Take 2): Femara 5 mg cd3-7, trigger
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When our son was born still in Dec of 2005 (I was 29 weeks), I knew of like other women who were due within a few months of me. My DH's aunt had a baby 2.5 months earlier, my sister had her baby exactly a week later, my cousin was due a couple days after me, and there were a couple more.
The only thing that makes me feel better when I look at these kids and realize that that's how big Eric would be is the thought that Eric is a special angel for them. He couldn't stay and grow up with them, but he would have played with them if he had. I think he watches over them because they have a special bond. That helps a little.
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