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Old 05-23-2008, 07:01 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi Everyone,

I lost my babies this time last year. I feel like it was yesterday. Is anyone else struggling? Maybe we could support eachother through this?
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Old 05-23-2008, 11:47 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry this time of year is rough. Most of my special dates are past at the moment, so I've got a break at the moment, but I wanted to send you some (((Hugs))) anyway. Do you have special plans to honor the twins, now or in the future? I have found that kind of thing to be enormously therapeutic.

Hang in there... I did find that first year to be the absolute worst, as it often is for others. ((Hugs)) again!
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Old 05-24-2008, 01:59 PM   #3 (permalink)
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It is tough for me because I am coming up on the anniversary of my BFP. One month to go.
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Old 05-24-2008, 05:21 PM   #4 (permalink)
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This is the second miscarriage I have had around this time. I just had my third 2 weeks ago. My birthday is monday and Iam turning 30 which i was alittle depressed about and its even worse now. So yeah right now is not a good time for me either.

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Old 05-24-2008, 08:11 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I'm still struggling with my loss from April and now my due date from my first loss is fast approaching. I'm having a really tough time right now. Everywhere I look I see pregnant women that I know and friend who have had babies recently.
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Old 05-24-2008, 08:47 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Sheri, thankyou for your kind words. We don't have anything special planned for tomorrow, but I will visit them at the graveyard.

Suzi, I am thinking of you. How is Elisa?

Shanna, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kristy, I know what you mean, pregnant women and new babies everywhere. I have a friend who is at the same stage I was at this time last year and it's tough. Hang in there.
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My EDD was supposed to be 31 May. That day will be hard for me. I'm just going to try to keep busy, etc, that day. I hope all of you find some comfort in the near future.
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Thankyou all for your kind words. I hope those of you who are struggling find some peace too.
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Sorry for your loss. I am struggling too. I have been told more than once that it gets easier. Does it really? My EDD was 11/22/07 but My daughter came early (July 17, 2007) I plan to visit the grave yard on her birthday as well.
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