I will never, I repeat, never, ask a woman when she is planning on having children.
I am a school librarian, and two teachers decided to ask me when I was having children. HELLO! First, it's not their business. Second, you just never know! I know their intentions are good. They just want me to have a baby. I know if I told them about our struggle, they would feel horrible and would be very supportive. But, it's such a private issue. Oh well! That's enough ranting for now. Thanks...