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Posted 10-30-2009 at 01:23 PM by MrsBishop
I'm coming to realize how thankful I am that I found this website where so many wonderful women are willing to share their experiences about PCOS, infertility, losses, etc. It seems so hard in the "normal" world to talk about all of this stuff. When I talk to anyone in my family about how I may not be able to conceive children on my own or at all, I get the usual responses, "You're fine- relax and it will happen", "There's nothing wrong with you", "You're young and healthy", or my favorite-"As soon as you stop worrying about/talking about it, you'll get pregnant". I'm thankful that there are women here who have heard the same thing and understand exactly how I'm feeling about it.
I'm also thankful for all of the women willing to share their miscarriage stories. This is a hard one to talk to other people about. Yes, it makes me sad to talk about the baby I lost. But, sometimes I do want to talk about it. Or I'll start a conversation, "when I was Pregnant..." and it makes people uncomfortable, because I don't have a baby. I think that most people I know prefer to pretend like it didn't happen. But, I WAS pregnant, and I LOVED that baby, so sometimes I WANT to talk about it! Thanks for letting me vent as usual. Thanks for sharing all of your stories!
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Isn't it odd how people pretend that those pregnancies never happened? I haven't had a miscarriage (knock on wood), but If I did, I know I'd want to talk about it.
I have had to deal with those lame responses you talked about though. My favorite one is, "God will bless you with a child when He feels that you're ready." I know I'm ready! Why is that not enough while my single sister with no place to live is pregnant? What makes her so much more "ready" than I am?

Sorry... it looks like I ended up on a bit of a rant of my own!
Posted 11-01-2009 at 03:09 PM by wokeuplaughing wokeuplaughing is offline
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Haha..its ok...I know how u feel. Everytime I see people who are pregnant and I know they're gonna be unfit mothers- I get mad!
Posted 11-02-2009 at 02:10 AM by MrsBishop MrsBishop is offline
 
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