I don't know if I really expect anybody to read this, but I just need to get this out - somewhere that it's not going to get back to the parties involved (I think SC is safe!). I dated a guy for 7 years. We broke up. As far as break-ups going it was a pretty good break up - hard, but nobody cheated, lied, etc. Just time for us to go our separate ways. It took a couple of years, but we have become friends again. We get along to well not to be friends, although some of my/his friends have trouble...

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