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Old 11-09-2003, 08:21 PM   #1 (permalink)
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so Joel probably won't be home even for xmas-
sounds like the guy that signs off- went on a 2 week
VACATION- and no one can sign while he's gone- he comes
back for a week- (thanksgiving) then leaves for another vacation

then it's december holidays-

I HOPE/PRAY this is just a BAD rumor-

I can't ever go through this again- this is just horrible-

ALL I WANT is for joel armando to have his mom and dad...

what else can we do?? besides pray???

oh my heart

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Old 11-09-2003, 09:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry this is happening--what a sad feeling.

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Old 11-09-2003, 10:07 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Just a thought Jen.. is there any way you could go down and visit/be with him if he's not home for Christmas? I don't know how pricey that would be, or if it's even allowed, but I'm sure it would be good for all of you.
Best of luck, your family is in my prayers *hugs*
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Old 11-10-2003, 12:12 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I would LOVE to be down there- but the plane tickets are getting so way out of hand now- and dh wouldn't be able to go.. since he works- all the way through the winter break- that school's get off..


I just hope this all works out- and that they're just HORRIBLE rumors- only way to stop the rumor- is to get released this week-
if not it won't happen by xmas-

COME ON PHONE. (and this time- don't be my mother or sister!)
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praying that it was only a rumor.

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Jen,
I so hope that it is just a bad rumor.
Here's some phone ringing vibes to make that phone of yours ring. ~~~~~~~~ Come on phone~~~~~~~ Call and tell Jen she can come get Joel~~~~~~~~ Come on ring~~~~~

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Oh Jen...

I am sorry your heart is breaking I just wanna come over and hug you !

I am hoping for you that this is just a horrible rumour..is there any way you could confirm it ? any at all ?

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Oh honey, this is sad...I can't imagine how you must feel. I know all you want is to have your little one home with you. I'm going to say a prayer for JOEL to come home to his mama and daddy. I'm even gonna send out a prayer request for it! RIGHT NOW!!!! It sure can't HURT!

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I sent a prayer request out for you. Many Many people are saying prayers for JOEL RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! (And his Mama & Daddy to)
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I too have sent out a prayer request for your family to get Joel home before Christmas... and I will continue to keep you in my prayers. (((hugs)))

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jen, have you heard anything?
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Jen, I'm thinking about you often. What a nightmare this has been for you. I'm so sorry. Keep your faith...this is when you need it most.
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we just keep hearing from agency...

"soon" or the manana (tomorrow)

I'm so sick of MANANA... i want the call now-

I'm so afraid he won't be home for xmas-
that I have to start thinking- he won't be....

this xmas is going to be horrible.. to get through ...

..... stupid stupid stupid- can't believe they allow
the head guy to go on a 2 week VACATION after
not working for 7 months... this year.. WHATEVER.

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I just don't understand as I am sure you dont why you just cant go get him !

He has been declared abandoned by his BM right ? so what is the problem...you do all the court stuff over there right ?

Jen I think about you all the time, hoping Joel will come home soon...
did you check out www.fertilethoughts.com like I said before they have a great support system especially with the Guat adoptions

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