Catholic Cysters Corner - Page 121

tigir · 02-16-2008, 12:31 AM

Wow! I don't think I am ever going to be able to keep up around here. LOL Just checking in. Still pg and MORE than ready to be done. I have 1 week left and then I am "overdue". lol

Baby measured about 5lb 15oz at my u/s, which means this one should be about the same size as my first two. I go in for another NST and u/s on Monday to recheck growth and make sure things are on track. Please pray that I can go on my own! I am scheduled for a c/s on the 26th if I haven't had the baby yet and I tend to go over my due dates so this has me thinking I am looking at a c/s. SIGH

Knew there was the possibility of it when I got pg, but to actually "schedule" it gave me a bit of despair.

Kara ~ I am sorry about the issues - could it be stress? Even though you are in this great relationship, it could be causing a little bit of stress, especially if you are praying over a possible move, the next step, etc. I hope things get straightened out, I know how frustrating it is when things are'nt working right.

Welcome to all the newbies!!!

Well, besides getting ready for baby, we have to take one of our dogs in to get porcupine quills removed tomorrow morning. *sigh* I didn't even know we HAD porcupines around our place! LOL We don't have a lot of trees and they tend to be in more wooded areas, so it was a shock that after 7yrs our mutt ends up with a few "piercings". lol This is the first pooch emergency we have ever had so just adding to the excitement around here.

Hope you gals are having a spiritually prosperous Lent and I should be checking in next time with a new little one!

musicteacherfla · 02-16-2008, 01:50 PM

Hey, Tam! It's good to hear from you! I hope your little one comes soon--and safely! And I hope your porcupine issue gets resolved!

Ladies, apparently I'm meant to bear a heavy cross this Lent. On top of feeling sick almost every day (no thanks to PCOS!), my anxiety level has been raised lately (I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder about 5-6 years ago)--probably stemming from a very personal issue, and the fact that I may have just lost one of my best friends. It was a big misunderstanding that happened about a year ago, and she's STILL bringing it up and blowing it WAY out of proportion!

Since I got married two years ago, my friend and I have seemed to grow further and further apart. She's still single, and wants to be married BADLY. I think she's jealous of me, because I'm married. She's also younger, and is quite immature. I don't know what to do, because she was my maid of honor at my wedding, and it would really hurt me if we weren't friends anymore. It's just that we are in two separate places now. We tried talking about it over the phone yesterday, but she cut us off because someone came to visit her. She said she would call me back, but she hasn't (so typical of her.) I think she's just frustrated with me, because I don't understand her point of view, on the issue that she's still so upset about from a year ago!

I've thought about going to pray before the Blessed Sacrament about this, and while I'm there writing her a letter. What do you ladies think I should do?

Thanks & God Bless,
Carrie

masked_rose86 · 02-16-2008, 02:27 PM

Hi Carrie!

I saw Phantom by the touring cast, and it was very well done. The theater in Omaha was built in the early 1900s so it is ornate and is perfect for the production

It was soooo wonderful....I wish I could go again! I saw it in Denver when I was younger too. My dream however is to see it on Broadway...I would just love to do that! This musical has always been close to my heart because of the music and the fact that my name is "Christine"

. I would LOVE to hear the recording of your performance...I remember readding that you were in that! That is sooo incredible. I cannot sing at all but I did dance ballet for 16-17 years! I joke that I danced because I cannot sing.

I wish I could join weight watchers, but I'm in pharmacy school right now so funds are tight. I wonder if they offer discounts for students? I may look into it sometime, just to see if it is an option. In the meantime, I have an appt with Dr. Hilgers on Wednesday and a new endocrinologist on March 10th (hoping to move it sooner!). The hope is that between the two of them we might increase my Met and get the weightloss to continue and figure out why my metabolism is so low

Anyways, moving onto your dillema.....I'm sorry you are feeling so anxious

But I'm positive that doing something like meditative prayer, adoration, etc really will make a difference. I think that writing a note to your friend in front of the blessed sacrament a wonderful idea. I'm sending you a private msg Carrie....hopefully it works.

Hope the rest of you are doing well! Happy Weekend!

musicteacherfla · 02-16-2008, 04:40 PM

Hi, Christine! I PM'd you!

Carrie

ellie_anna · 02-17-2008, 04:09 PM

Just stopping in to say hello! I hope everyone had a great weekend!!

ellie_anna · 02-17-2008, 11:18 PM

So ladies I just wanted to get your thoughts on something that I have stewed on for several days. A couple of ladies came to the door to preach to me. Being that I do not consider myself a rude person I decided that I would hear them out. I did not agree with all of there views and did tell them so. They proceed to continue to try to convert me to their believes. And then when I still did not agree told me I was condemned. I did try to point out to them that I was catholic and myself and the church that I belong to have our own views. I also pointed out to them that it is VERY unchristian to go around telling people that they are going to ****. I finally had to close the door in their faces and I continue to feel gulity about doing so...but I don't understand why. If someone asks me about my religous beliefs I do share. If I have an opportunity to educate someone about them I do. But I do not go door to door condemning others. I guess I just would expect the same respect from others. I know that this is a very large over reaction on my part. Please any suggestions to better deal with this frustration would be greatly appreciated.

musicteacherfla · 02-18-2008, 12:41 AM

Hi, Ellie,

Were they Jehovah's Witnesses? Even if they weren't, there are valuable resources on the Catholic Answers website, that can help you prepare for visits from such groups, such as Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses. They tell you exactly what you should say to them, and you may even convince them to change their beliefs! Just logon to: www.catholic.com.

If you feel badly about it, just ask God to forgive you, pray for the women who condemned you, and let it go. That's all you can do. Hope this helps!

God Bless,
Carrie

musicteacherfla · 02-18-2008, 01:06 AM

By the way, Ladies, do any of you know of a good daily Lenten devotional I could read? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated? I'm lacking in good spiritual reading, and could really use it!

Thanks & God Bless,
Carrie

Swingin' Cyster · 02-18-2008, 11:07 AM

Wow cysters! busy thread!
Ellie - sorry about the uncomfortable situation! I know they can be very militant. It may come down to a point where you smile at them, say "I'll pray for you" and close the door. We're all called to be missionaries in our own way - some can "engage the enemy"

and some need to pray for them. (Well we all need to pray for them)
Tam - I definitely think stress could be a factor. I'm feeling much better now. Hope that baby is getting bigger and healthier and doesn't get too comfortable inside Mommy!
Carrie - I love the pic and can't wait to hear your recording!! About the friend, it might get to the point where you need to give her up for the health of yourself and your marriage. I definitely like the idea of going in front of the Blessed Sacrament and writing a letter. When I first moved to Michigan, I was so excited b/c I had what I considered good friends from college living nearby. But these friends quickly became "non-friends" as I call them. They just don't call me, or invite me out, ALWAYS decline my invitations. It's at the point where I don't talk to them anymore b/c it hurts so much that I put forth so much effort and they're not interested. The Lord has blessed me with different friends more at my maturity level. It may be time for that. Definitely pray for her! The Popcaks (Catholic psychologist and wife) are constantly talking about setting appropriate boundaries which I think apply here. I'm sorry she's such a terrible friend to such a beautiful lady like you Carrie! And I too feel like I know you so well!!
Well ladies. I really think an engagement might be right around the corner. He mentioned last night that he'd like to get a job earlier then originally discussed (summer) b/c he misses me too much. Whenever he asked me when I wanted him to move, I would always say tomorrow.

Blessings!
Kara
PS - Anyone else having troubles with the Quick Reply? I keep having to go to the advanced screen to post my replies.

Texanna · 02-18-2008, 11:10 AM

Oh my! I have missed so much. I am sorry I was MIA for a few days (maybe a week). I have been so sleepy I just can't hardley keep my eyes open anymore. DH and I went to San Antonio this past weekend to a conference that Christopher West put on about the Theology of the Body. It was awesome. He is a great speaker as well. It started friday night at 7pm and went to 9:30pm and after the drive to San Antonio I was having a hard time staying awake. But, saturday was much better and that was the longer day. Then we came home yesterday. I tell you the weekend goes by so fast.

I will try this week to do a better job keeping up!

Anna

ellie_anna · 02-18-2008, 07:07 PM

Thanks for the tips ladies.

Have a great evening.

Sorry it is brief...DH not feeling well. I have to pamper him. LoL!

Petunia1985 · 02-18-2008, 07:38 PM

Hi Fellow catholic cysters,
I was also thinking of starting a thread like this. I am a traditional cradle Catholic who married a wonderful cradle Catholic who's uncle was a traditional catholic priest and died in 2006. Jenny my patron saint is also St Philomena............ confirmation name. I pray to her everyday that she may intercede with Our Lord so that I'll be able to conceive and bear another child if it be His will. Saying the Act of Faith every day really helps me to just leave everything in Gods hands

musicteacherfla · 02-18-2008, 09:40 PM

Hi, Ladies!

Kara, I'm soooo excited for you!!! I can't wait until I logon one day, and see that you're engaged!!!!! Thank you for the very sweet note! That really means a lot to me! I appreciate the good advice very much! I wasn't able to get to the church early enough on Saturday to write my letter, but I have my adoration hour on Wednesday at noon, and I'm going to use that time to write my friend a letter.

Anna, I LOVE Christopher West! Isn't he awesome?! I'm glad you enjoyed the conference. Our bishop is so orthodox that every time there is a Theology of the Body conference (which is every two years through Family Honor), he attends! This last time, our bishop brought the conference here, and Christopher West of course came and spoke. We even had Cardinal Arinz come and speak! It was AWESOME!!!

Ellie, I hope your DH feels better soon! I know about sick husbands acting like babies when they're sick!

Welcome, Anastasia to our rapidly growing group! I'm sorry to see that you lost your little boy! That must have just been awful! But you do have a little saint in Heaven praying for you now! What part of Oregon are you from? My husband is from the Portland area.

God Bless,
Carrie

musicteacherfla · 02-18-2008, 11:56 PM

Hi again, Ladies! I just noticed that someone started a thread in the Faith & Healing section about the religious view of BCP. Not ONE post came from a Catholic who truly understood and accepted the Church's teachings on BCP, and they are encouraging this poor young girl to take BCP. I think one or two of us needs to step in! Any takers?

Carrie

masked_rose86 · 02-19-2008, 12:17 PM

Hi Ladies,
I just really need to spill to someone about the multitude of emotions and thoughts I've had going on over the last 12 hours. I've been a little overloaded with a crazy day today, including a few meetings, an exam, and a long lab scheduled for the afternoon. But when I was getting stressed out last night Tom told me to come to his apartment to study since it would probably help me to get to a new environment and have him close by

(he was right btw).

But anyways, I'm getting through the day....still a little overwhelmed but just trying to get through it. However, last night Tom gave me something really exciting to look forward to: he intends to e-mail my dad tonight to ask for his blessing! I am not really sure the day Tom will propose, but this is the first step toward it! And I admit, the one I'm most anxious for since once my dad understands our plans and intentions, I will be able to relax and enjoy all the events coming up

My dad is a little cynical about marriage and believes I should "be on my own after college for several years" beforehand, but I really hope he will be reasonable after understanding what I want from my life. Tom and I have been so happy together (dating almost 2 years!), and I know I want to be married to him more than anything.

The other strange thing that happened last night that has thrown my emotions for a rollarcoaster, is I was looking up friends websites on theknot.com, and I happened to come across Tom's from his previous engagement 3 years ago (he has been very open about this with me btw and there is no contact between him and his ex since I've known him). But even though, it was really strange to see a picture of him and his former-fiance, etc. I know it was something I did to myself (I shouldn't have looked it up, but I admit I didn't expect to find anything since they were only engaged 2 months...and dated only 9 months prior). I guess my only concern now, is that I would like to see the website deactivated before I create my own (it could be really awkward if people came across it when searching for Tom's and mine).

Anyways, I'm not concerned about Tom's loyalty or our intentions to marry...I just have been having strange emotions after having seen it and needed to let it out so I could let it go.

I decided to pray for Tom's former fiance for the next week to prevent the feelings of jealousy and frustration (? I'm still not sure what I'm feeling) at bay. I've never met her nor has she ever caused Tom and I trouble (their connection has been over for some time). But I still have a touch of sadness that I'm not his first proposal...I need to find some way to get over that because he is an amazing guy and has been wonderful toward me. He has assured me that he feels so much more certain about "us" than he did about then. So I just need to find a way to let go of jealousy and realize that it isn't pertinant anymore....