So for the past three weeks the baby has been a week behind in growth. They said it was probably just a late implant. They were not real concerned about it. Last week they saw a wonderfully strong heart beat (wed.) Today, I go in, and the baby is only showing one day of growth in a full week, making the baby now 13 days behind. And the heart beat is not so strong now. I've been put on bed rest until Tuesday, another appt. with bloodwork and U/S Monday. They don't want to tell me that all hope is lost, but they said it is time to think realistically.
What are my chances at having this baby survive, or am I supposed to just lay in bed knowing that it is happening and there is nothing that I can do about it. I don't know if I can do this again, I don't know if I can pick myself up, I still havent from the girls, how am I supposed to get through this too?
Do they just not want to tell me there is no chance or what? Sitting and waiting is killing me.
It's hard to tell at this point. Sometimes they can miscalculate with u/s, sometimes the heartbeat goes up and down... as long as the heart is still beating there is a chance. Don't give up yet. The only thing you can do right now is to follow your doctor's orders and keep that hope alive. The rest is out of your hands.
I am sorry you are going through this.
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I'm sorry that I cant offer any advice for this situation ... but you have my prayers x
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SO I went in yesterday, the baby still has not grown. I should of been 9 weeks 1 day, baby only measured 6 weeks, but last wed. it measured 6w2d, and I know each tech does it different. Still has a heart beat, but it did look slower. I have to go back in thrusday. They told me the chance of the baby surviving is very remote, and there isn't anything that I can do except sit around and wait. :'(
Are they going to keep monitoring you often? Try to stay hopeful, it would be a long shot, but you never know. As long as the heart is still beating there is still a chance.
I'll be keeping you in my thoughts hun.
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