Confused

kita · 10-21-2004, 02:46 AM

ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN TTC FOR ABOUT 2 YRS. NOW WHEN I FOUND OUT THAT I HAD PCOS. ANYWAY NOW THAT I'M TAKING PART OF A PCOS STUDY WHERE I'M GONNA HAVE TO TAKE MET AND CLO. HE HAS CHANGED HIS MIND ON TTC.I'M CONFUSED!!! CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ANSWERS ON HOW THERE BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND WAS EFFECTED BY THE PCOS AS WELL......

Amy_53405 · 11-03-2004, 02:10 AM

My husband has been totally supportive. The only thing he complains about is some of the medical bills, but I tell him to get over it, it's not like I can help it.

I have donet the Clomid/Met thing so if you have any questions or just wanna chat, please pm me. GL

cotton411 · 11-10-2004, 02:15 AM

my husbands gets upset sometimes that i can concieve. but as of right now, conceiving is not on our minds. we have talked about it, and he would rather me not take medication to get pregnant. personally i think they are afraid of having more than one at one time. find out why he doesnt want to and talk with him about it and remember most men change their minds more than women do

sam74 · 12-08-2004, 02:46 AM

Hi! I can tell you, my wife has had PCOS for over 9 years. She was DX after our first daughter, who will be 10 in April. It took us 6 long years before our second daugther came along. Between fertility visits(if you know what I mean

and Clomid for my wife, it was a long road. She didn't get pregnant until 8 months after she stopped the Clomid. We still don't know how our second child got here?? No period, no fertility pills, too weird. Anyway, your husband may change his mind. I did a few times. You kind of get frustrated and just feel like throwing in the towel. You both must stay strong no matter the outcome. Everything happens for a reason, so stick it out and do everything you can to make it work. Your rewards will be unmeasurable! Good luck.