Depressed over so many unwanted babies on this world

nylon · 01-28-2003, 05:44 AM

Hi cysters,

I'm writing this under the blues of yet another bust cycle (11th). I just need to cry out for the little ones, who are born to mothers not wanting them, abusing them or in worst cases even ending up killing them.
I don't uderstand why life is so unfair. What is the purpose of a childs life, if it is meant to be misery and suffering from the very beginning? Why do these people breed like rabbits? I cry my eyes out every day I see news of an abused child, beaten by parents etc.

And the big Q remains - why are the children not born for the parents, who would love them, care for them and be proud of having them??? This is just beyond me.

Depressed and weepy,
Nylon

KT1979 · 01-28-2003, 03:02 PM

I hear you cyster; I don't understand either. Sometimes when I get really depressed I wonder what I've done wrong with my one child that I don't deserve anymore, while those who don't think twice about abusing their children and throwing them away can have one after the other. I know God has a plan and a purpose for everything, but from a human standpoint, it's just impossible to understand.

Lisa67 · 01-30-2003, 05:28 PM

I hear you too. It's a sad, sad world and when I read about the horror inflicted on some kids it just makes me want to cry.

It really makes you wonder.

angel--baby · 02-02-2003, 10:36 AM

i just wanted to say that i know what you are talking about. everytime i see something on the news about another baby mistreated, i always think of someone from soulcysters. chin up, your turn is comming

taah · 02-03-2003, 01:41 AM

I just wanted to say I know exactly how you feel........It makes me so mad and sad at the same time.......... when i see something about a baby being found in a trash can...... I just wish I could run an ad in the paper saying ,,,,,,hey , if you don't want your baby don't throw it in the trash........give it to me i will love it and take care of it.......... but they would still throw it in the trash.........there are so many places they could leave the baby,,,,,, but that would be to loving and caring...........grrrrrrrr........

TERRA

tsandford · 02-08-2003, 06:30 AM

Hi,

I have been diagnosed with PCOS and have done a lot of research on the web today. I now feel really informed but at the same time really sad. I agree with you all when you hear aboaut people who get pregnant by mistake or abuse their children etc and yet we can't conceive? It's just not fair.

Lendi · 02-11-2003, 12:39 AM

No, it's not fair, not to the parents who want children, but especially not fair to the children who deserve loving caring parents. And, why do the social services take these poor children away, get the stable and then put them right back in the same home. I just do not understand.

jennifer_klassen · 02-15-2003, 02:18 AM

Totally agree with you there sister.. I came on tonight looking for a reason that I was feeling like this and this popped up first. I think it's so unfair that others can get pregnant, protected even on a one night stand, and we're sitting here unable to, with tons of love waiting for that little one. My husband and I are recently married so not even near the point of trying, but I'm just depressed with the fact that a lot of people around me are getting pregnant, or having babies soon and I'm wondering if i'll ever even get pregnant.. I'm almost afraid to try because of it. Then I'll feel like a failure...