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Old 05-18-2005, 09:52 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Ok before everybody jumps the gun and starts kicking off about my age, i do have feelings, even if i am only 17. I miscarried 2 weeks ago. People seem to think that because im only 17 i can cope, thinking that i was too young to bring up a child anyway, this isnt the case, ive been in a stable relationship for the past 2 years, and am buying my own property.I did not know i was pregnant until it was all to late. Ok i am only 17, but since that day wen i was 14 year old ive longed for a baby, i think it was just tyhe fact that i thought i couldnt have 1. Me and my partner have had unprotected sex for the past year and a half and not once had i become pregnant in that period of time, until now. My partner is also very upset, but he copes different to me, he cant talk about it, but i need to taqlk about it to get over it. This is why i have turned to you guys.

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Old 05-18-2005, 11:41 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Awwww sweetie I'm so sorry about your loss! ***hugs*** We're the same age and I have been longing for a baby too (I even have the names picked out!) so even tho I haven't gone thru what you have, I can imagine how you feel. If you need to talk, feel free to send me a private message on here. And remember, this isn't the end. You have your whole life ahead of you and you can have as many babies as you want!
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Old 05-18-2005, 02:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Yes, you're young. That doesn't mean that you don't grieve your child. I'm so sorry for your loss. You're never going to "get over it." You WILL learn to cope with it, though, and eventually it won't hurt quite as much (but it will always be there).

Yes, you have your your whole life ahead of you, but it doesn't really matter right now how many babies you have in the future. Worry about taking care of yourself and coming to terms with this loss.

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Hi Lee Ann,

First of all, so sorry for your loss.

Just because you're young doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to grieve for and miss your baby...and do NOT let anyone tell you otherwise.

Where are you located, hon? Maybe you can find a support group (face-to-face) in your area. For some resources, check out www.nationalshareoffice.com or www.october15th.com .
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