Lezasc20

So my DH and I have been really great lately....never really been any less. Still kind of in the honeymoon stage b/c he deploys every year since we married 4 years ago. So its all new every year. Well, sometimes he mutters things in his sleep that are usually related to work or army crap sometimes even shooting noises. It freaks me out....well, tonight.....he says this...

Muttering army crap....

I wake up an say "WHAT? ARE YOU OKAY? "

He says (in an angry tone)....."shut the f*** up, damn."

He says again (as if to his buddies)...."damn, everyone is gettin' nosey my wife, my sweetheart, my chief...."

I get an instant warm feeling over my body and I think "did he really say MY SWEETHEART" .Ok first of all, he usually calls me honey....and is he talking about a seperate woman? First, let me tell you this. My dh is such a nice guy and is not the kind of person to cheat. He usually admits when he tricks me just b/c he cant lie to me. Plus, he wouldnt have time or money to cheat on me. I control EVERYTHING in this house. I know where every penny goes b/c im control the bank accounts. AND he comes home from work at 2pm everyday and spends the night w/ me. I dont want you guys to get the wrong impression b/c he's just the perfect partner (sometimes...lol) but I dont know what to make of that ......its 4am and I am sooo pondering on his words. I am tempted to wake him up and ask him. But he has to get up in 30 minutes for PT so Id feel bad.

Im so confused.....

Do you think I should ask him in the morning? Or just let it go b/c it was stupid? I sometimes dream about my ex but I dont think I mutter anything about him. AND I DEFINATELY dont repeat the dream to dh.

I need advice.....

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Miracle07

Leza- I wouldn't worry too much about it. DH sometimes moans in his sleep.... I really do not want to know! Maybe he was dreaming that he had a wife and a sweetheart or maybe he didn't even say sweetheart maybe it was something else. I once dreamed that I was married to 2 people (DH and someone else) , doesn't mean that I want to or I am. Sometimes we just dream strange things.

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AnotherDreamer

I wouldn't put to much stock in dream speaking, BUT you can mention it to him offhanded if you really must say something. Like, "Oh, you should have heard yourself last night. So rude.... you told me to shut the f*** up and THEN com,plained about everyone being so nosey... me, your sweetheart, your chief..." you know, just light and offhanded, and gauge his reaction. It was probably nothing, but if you feel as if it is going to bother you until you say something, then do it as a joke, nothing serious.

(*hugs*) I know that it worries you, but try not to think about it too much.

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SandV

I agree with pp. Dreams are our mind's interpretation of what we are going through. There are times when I dream of strange things that do not make sense. I dreamt that I was with DH but still in college. I went to visit friends in a dorm room (who were from High School) and told them they need to grow up. I graduated from college 15 years ago. I definitely didn't know DH then and do not speak to anyone I went to college or high school.

You could do as Another said and mention lightheartedly. Wish you the best.

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SheriKCMO

It probably doesn't mean anything! (((Hugs)))

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Katie_W

it's probably nothing but if it were me I would have to ask him!
It would drive me crazy, I would think about if something weird is going on all the time! I would judge everything and over think everything.

that's me though, I've been mistreated by a lot of men before my fiance, so I am used to worrying.

It all depends on how you feel, if you can forget about it then do! if you can't then I would ask him, maybe just joke about it and then say.. you don't have a sweetheart do you? or something.

*big hugs*

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